#abuse

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Ну раз все вроде удачно разрешилось с делом Кевина Спейси, давайте пробежимся по частой юридической лексике. Все слова и выражения взяла из статьи Forbes (закинула её в карусель). 👨‍⚖️a prosecutor - прокурор 👩‍⚖️ to drop a case against smb - закрыть дело в отношении кого-то 👨‍⚖️ sexual assault - синоним ’rape’, изнасилование, сексуальное насилие (наверняка, в юридической трактовке есть какие-то тонкости 🤔) 👩‍⚖️ battery - побои e.g. Prosecutors in Massachusetts have dropped a sexual assault case against Kevin Spacey. 👩‍⚖️to drop charges - снять обвинения 👨‍⚖️ battery - побои e.g. They have dropped charges of indecent assault and battery against him. 👨‍⚖️an accuser - обвинитель 👩‍⚖️to testify about - давать показания о чём-то e.g. An accuser refused to testify about a missing phone. 👨‍⚖️To allege- приписывать, утверждать без особого основания 👩‍⚖️ В статье есть alleged sexual abuse. Это значит, что не очень ясно, было ли изнасилование или нет. Поэтому перевести можно, как «якобы совершенное изнасилование». В статьях вообще часто встречается ”allegedly”, которое и переводят как «якобы». Вот ещё «якобы» ужасная новость: e.g. А Florida Man Allegedly Cut Neighbor's Penis Off After Accusing Him of Sleeping with His Wife. 👨‍⚖️А вот существительное от глагола to allege - allegations - уже не несёт оттенка неопределенности и предвзятости. Это утверждение, заявление, например, в суде. e.g. Metropolitan Police officers in the U.K. also travelled to the U.S. to question Spacey over sexual assault allegations between 1996 and 2013 in May. И последнее - an inquiry. Это то же, что investigation (расследование, следствие) только более официальное. Юридический термин. e.g... inquiries continue... Ну что, переснимут Карточный домик назад, гыгы, что думаете? #vocabulary #crimeandunishment #sexualassault #насилие #абуз #abuse #courtdrama #kevinspacey #hollywood
As great as the summer was, I will never be thankful because of the absolute HELL he put me through after. He strung me along, treated me like shit, saying he was trying, which kept me giving him the benefit of the doubt that he would eventually try hard enough to not be knowingly hurting me daily and go back to being the guy I fell in love with. When someone says they love you and you've had such a good relationship, you can never imagine them hurting you like that, specially knowingly. Emotional and psychological abuse is so much harder to see, generally due to those reasons. And this can often then be put onto the abused, as they lash out due to being in so much pain, and then the abused person feels awful and is made to feel like the bad guy, and tries to make up for hurting the other person. It's such a vicious cycle and one that's so hard to escape from. And I will never be thankful for having been put through that. I will forever hate what he did to me and the awful positions he put me in. He took 3months of my life and made it into a living nightmare and one I was hoping would turn back into the dream that was us over summer. #abuse #emotionalabuse #abuseisabuse #unseen #notthankful #next #depressed #livingnightmare #stillinhell #fuckhim #wantmytimeback #wastedlove #wastedtime #strungalong #ideservebetter #sosad #brokendreams #brokenhearted #sosad #sohard #wishineverbelievedhim #wishicouldhatehim #heartbroken
Can We? (Euphoria S1E5) 💊 Can we touch? Can we Be? Can we climb: Past the mountain top: Tearing through: .....a...starry...sky... A Together lasting past; Past the white light, Passed the test of time; No more loneliness, No more wandering, No more hopelessness; Not knowing tomorrow, But knowing: There is a someone, And a someplace, With...some...Time... Can we? 💑 #poetry #euphoria #relationship #addiction #abuse #hopes #dreams
Journal note from someone who got out of an abusive relationship: "To all those who hurt.... You'd never guess what I did with all that pain. I turned it into something beautiful. It's a garden, that doesn't stop growing. It has wild flowers. It has an energy you don't understand. It's a garden that you can't kill. It's no longer your's. It grows wild and free. Look what I did with all that pain. All those years of helplessness. All those years of feeling unloved. My pain has given me seeds. Seeds to grow something you can not stand. If you saw me now you'd be scared. You wouldn't recognize me. I turned into my beautiful self. You thought I would never leave. You thought I didn't have the courage. Guess what, I did. I did leave. With all my pride intact. You thought my strength was temporary. Look what happened. See it for yourself. This is reality. I am beautiful and strong And you my friend, never deserved me." Art by @sahertote #inspiration #strength #journeythroughpain #abuse #wildgarden #beautiful
Ненависть к самой себе – слишком высокая цена для отношений с нарциссом. Нарциссы - опытные манипуляторы. Чтобы получить желаемое, они обволакивают нас воодушевляющей (но фальшивой) близостью. Если мы не подчиняемся, они угрожают, в результате нас начинает мучить совесть и чувство вины. Мы соглашаемся с ними во избежание неудобств, чтобы временно расслабиться в иллюзорном комфорте и безопасности. В то же время мы чувствуем себя раздражёнными и оскорбленными из-за того, что ради умиротворения партнёра пренебрегаем нашими собственными желаниями. В результате голоса недовольства начинают звучать в нашем бессознательном. “Я никогда не поддерживаю себя”, “Я всегда даю ему то, что он хочет, но он никогда не идет на компромисс”, “Я всегда позволяю ему делать по-своему”, “Когда же я встану во весь рост и скажу то, что хочу?”, “Я - неудачница”. Вас шантажировали. Нарцисс использует эмоциональный шантаж чтобы держать вас под своим контролем. Он знает: вы хотите развития отношений и использует против вас ваши слабые места. Чтобы получить его любовь и одобрение, вы начинаете с ним соглашаться. Например, если вы признаетесь, что когда-то чувствовали себя отверженными своей семьей, он скажет, что понимает причину отвержения. Если вы будете гордиться своей щедростью, он назовет вас эгоистичной и безответственной. В результате это становится основой отношений. Он давит на вас, чтобы вы с ним соглашались. Эмоциональный шантаж бывает трудно обнаружить, потому что зачастую нарцисс представляется милым и щедрым. Позже он начнёт вам угрожать. Так или иначе мы всё время чувствуем неопределенное расстройство и недовольство. Если вы переживали что-либо из нижеперечисленного, весьма вероятно, что вы стали жертвой этой тайной борьбы за власть: Вы получали «вознаграждение» за удовлетворение его требований. Поначалу это может быть похоже на компромисс. Например, если вы согласитесь позаботиться о его больном родителе от его лица, он готов вознаградить Вас обручальным кольцом. Если вы откажетесь, он ответит, что вы непригодны для создания семьи. 👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼
I did.... over and over blindly believing each time you let me suffer - it was just an accident. You never wanted to hurt me right? You had my best interest in mind? You loved me.... didn’t you? 🌟 Tye true hurt, it was never love, there was not trust but constant betrayal that I ignored. .......... #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #toxicrelationships #abuse #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #npdsurvivor #toxicpeople #lies #truth #domesticviolence #healingfromabuse #abusesupport #abuserecovery #phoenixrising #saveyoursoul #healingquotes #soulssurvival #love #respect #empathy
For Brownie Points? An no one will be brave enough to like it because its not: -a meme -a half naked lady -a meal -or an other meaningless bu11sh!t #documentary #film #corruption #uk #unitedkingdom #bbc #abuse #childabuse #sad #power #public #2019 #democracy #west @joerogan @joeroganclip @richieallenshow @davidickeofficial @thejimmydoreshow @fababs
Spend a few minutes on an online sexual assault forum, you will see post after post describing an encounter that was troublesome and following it with the question, was this rape? I did it too. Well, at first I was in denial and truly thought that I could convince myself it was consensual. Surprisingly, that did not work! When I started to allow myself to admit the truth, I found myself calling crisis lines or posting in forums as well asking that very question. Once I had begun to acknowledge the reality of what happened, I found myself desperately wanting it to be confirmed for me. Perhaps to compartmentalize or perhaps looking for the label so I could be “justified” in my trauma. So I understand the need and want to ask this question but also please remember that you don’t need anyone to define it for you to make your experience valid. #sexualassaultawareness #trauma #traumaawareness #supportsurvivors #survivorempowerment #believesurvivors #traumainformed #sexualassault #rape #abuse #resilience #metoo #metoomanyvoices #victim #survivor #rapesurvivor #support #recovery #courage #mentoo #mentalhealthawareness #rapesurvivor #healing #sexeducation #traumahealing #ptsdrecovery #ptsd #endrapeculture #trustyourself
I keep coming back to this game like a toxic relationship #ffxiv #scholar #abuse how many #yalms will it take for me to #quityoukupo
I was isolated. I did everything I could to not upset him. I turned a blind eye to everything he did that upset me...because I didn’t want to upset him. I tried to protect his feelings so I buried mine. Avoidance. I avoided conflict and confrontation. Then...it got worse. . . . . . #speakup #woman #womanempowerment #womanempoweringwoman #selflove #healing #narcissist #abuse #avoidance #realtalk #staystrong #empowerment #toxicrelationship #narc #strongwomen #helpingothersheal
First Lunch-Box order! Naworah cooked Ethiopian food for 40 people and delivered them to SW1.Solutions ~ a Design and Construction Practice. The income earned from this will allow Naworah to be an active contributor to her family income. This is a social collaboration between @elleforellemalaysia and MSRI ( Malaysian Social Research Institute) #elleforelle www.elleforelle.org.uk hello@elleforelle.org.uk #domesticviolence #abuse #domesticabuse #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #narcissist #domesticviolenceawareness #mentalhealth #sociopath #divorce #survivor #love #metoo #gaslighting #ptsd #sexualabuse #mentalhealthawareness #trauma #psychologicalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #domesticviolencesurvivor #stoptheviolence #endthestigma #beautyproducts #charity #womeninrefuge #elleforellecrew
On the 27th June we launched the Lunch-Box drive to several law firms in Kuala Lumpur. The aim is to get these firm order lunches in from the refugee women from these communities-From their kitchens to the pantries of offices. The launch was received very well and several firms will be placing their orders soon! This initiative allows these women to earn an income and become more financially independent and astute as they learn to run and manage a business, albeit a home grown one. #elleforelle www.elleforelle.org.uk hello@elleforelle.org.uk #domesticviolence #abuse #domesticabuse #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #narcissist #domesticviolenceawareness #mentalhealth #sociopath #divorce #survivor #love #metoo #gaslighting #ptsd #sexualabuse #mentalhealthawareness #trauma #psychologicalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #domesticviolencesurvivor #stoptheviolence #endthestigma #beautyproducts #charity #womeninrefuge #elleforellecrew
I see too often people who identify narcissism early on in their SO and start out with boundaries. They come on with strong boundaries and expectations and what they won’t put up with. Quickly though, they start bargaining and stop enforcing, ( in this case), because they think the person will change or hope they do. Bargaining with self, hope and dreams of winning their love becomes slowly the new accepted reality. Narcissists will not change. They are not interested in reality, lessons, your feelings or change unless it’s on their terms. Differentiating between what you want and FEEL has nothing to do with what IS, their psychopathy. It is so important to recognize that your feelings bare no weight on the reality of true narcissism. You ARE worthy. Accept that they will not change. It’s not going to happen. This is a harsh and inconvenient truth, but I care, enough to tell you the truth. If you choose to stay, nobody can decide FOR you, however it needs to be WITH the acknowledgement they will not change. You must accept truth or choose better for yourself. 🌷 🧰 tools for your box #boundaries #manipulation #abuse #control #deflecting #dysfunctionalfamily #traumabonding #finances #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #abusesurvivor #neglect #victims #healing #trauma #recovery #negativity #listening #stonewalling #parenthood #narcissiticabuserecovery #therapy #dismissive #minimize #covertnarcissist #silenttreatment #narcissisticabusesurvivor #cptsdrecovery #narcaship #ifmywoundswerevisible
Don’t like this shit just spread the word that if they can’t come up off you no more they gone #abuse you rather physically, emotionally, or subliminally stop this bullshit if you like it I appreciate your support but at the end of the day I’m taking my power back from these #abusers I’m just here for the people because everything you went thru from rape to abuse I have to #childabuse , #abusesurvivor , #abuseawareness , #abuseisabuse , #abuserecovery , #abuseofpower , #abusiverelationships , #domesticabuse , #hiddenabuse , #narcissisticabusesurvivor , #narcissisticabuse , #stopabuse , #financialabuse , #domesticabuseawareness , #childsexualabuse , #childabuseawareness , #stopchildabuse , #stopsexualabuse all abuse is bad and needs to quit now I’m not saying some lil niggas need they ass whooped but when you use weapons your just asking to intentionally hurt someone because you’re mad or you’re jealous of them and that’s fucked up my real family pays these Mfers to watch me my brother and my nephew and that’s not enough granted idc about the house being fucked up because I can fix it myself but you abuse us as well then what is my peoples paying you for that’s why I took the Rv & car my father got me because I got tired of the abuse I had to leave my younggins alone with these Mfers to stack up money so we can disappear together bitch I’m suffering right now so my younggins don’t have to but enough is enough I need all them niggas gone who ain’t my younggins in that house tell them leave they keys and don’t steal nothing on the way out ASAP like AS SOON AS NOW I already told them in person if I gotta do it again I’m finna change from archangel to fallen angel like Lucifer did and then shits finna get real bloody bro
Existence is a consequence of being, whereas life is a consequence of choice. I have always chosen to live, rather than to exist. Simply existing means responding to what comes your way rather than defining your own path. The same is true with survival. We must recognise that the act of survival is to overcome a specific event, or events. It is not a permanent state. Living is much larger and more fulfilling than that. You deserve more than just survival. Rather than just survive, you must thrive by embracing so much more that life has to offer you. #survival #survivor #abuse #abusiverelationship #selfworth #selfawareness #selflove #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthrecovery #egosystem #lifegoals #healthymind #thrive
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