𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦.⠀
I love daydreaming . . . I do it often. I love thinking about what could be and allowing myself the freedom to dream wildly. Everything that will be in my life will starts with a thought, a dream, an awakening to possibility. ⠀
I found though that as quickly as a dream would come so would the reason why it wasn't possible. 𝑨𝒏 𝒖𝒏𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒖𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒂𝒅𝒖𝒍𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒕 𝒘𝒆'𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒖𝒎𝒖𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅. 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒚 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓. We take the good times and love them with all we have (my favourite part), but we also take our mistakes and enhance them make them bigger, worse, and something to avoid at all costs in the future. The result is a distortion of what we are capable of doing.⠀
We need to master or at least become a steward of letting go. Letting go of the past and our illusionary obstacles of the future. We are a new person now and now and now. 𝑩𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒔 𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒅𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍-𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒖𝒕𝒆 𝒘𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒑𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒏𝒆𝒘. ⠀
So take the time to daydream. Dream wildly and when you find yourself also attaching the 'no way,' 'it's not possible,' 'you aren't good enough to do that,' 'that's way too far outside of your comfort zone' . . . .⠀
𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟. 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐧𝐨𝐭? 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐞? ⠀
Not every dream is meant to come true, but everything starts with an idea, a dream, so dream in a direction that will take you to amazing places.⠀
>> 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞? 𝐉𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐩 & 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧. 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐢𝐨. ⠀
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Tonight’s the night! I’ll be at @hatchedcollective
sharing my story of hope with women who are in the thick of it. I am talking about how to be all there in whatever your current season is.⠀
This doesn’t always look pretty. And, I’ll share that too.⠀
We will be talking about grief and how to cope with the emotional losses that happen when a marriage ends. I’ve lived through it and come out on the other side, excited to share the goodness I’ve learned with all of you!⠀
Come on out if this sounds like something that would be of help to you! Thank you @sibuslawgroup
for creating this space for women to heal together.
3 years ago on my birthday I was in a hospital, broken, recovering, feeling lost, and done with life... It was raining and I cursed God.
A bird was perched at my window singing, and in that moment I just decided to listen, and just gave it all up to God.
The message was to truly understand and embody grace and forgiveness.
So every morning since then I made a conscious decision to forgive, and to act in grace. I never missed a day since, and I have forged grace and forgiveness the same way I hit the weights at the gym to build my health, fitness, strength, and mindset.
Now that it’s automatic, my next focus to add on to those bricks of growth is unleashing more love. Not that I wasn’t focused on leading with love, it just took third place to grace and forgiveness.
Love is a transcending power, a higher energy that can redirect you back towards your good at any time. It’s the path away from pain, hurt, and suffering as it will guide you through all that smoke and lead you to your breakthroughs.
I turn 44 today, and I choose to live this year defined by love. It’s going to be hard, I already know this, but I aim for a different destiny from what I’ve already experienced from the bitterness and pain.
I wish nothing but love and joy for you out there🙏🏽💞
New Blog Post, show notes from Divorce Conversations for Women Episode 061: Work at Home Success: Lessons Learned from 24-Years of Working from Home with special guest Lesly Pyle @hiremymom
💁 In this episode, we discussed:⠀
- Five things you need to know before you start working from home.⠀
- What does it take to be successful working from home?⠀
- What are the biggest mistakes people make when starting to work from home?⠀
Read the podcast show notes on the WFWC Blog 🔗 in bio!