**note to self**
Yes, taking full responsibility for your life doesn’t mean denying what happened in the past. Your parents may have been emotionally illiterate, someone may have abused you, an ex partner may have manipulated you or a dear friend disrespected your boundaries. Those things are real. They happened (and still we could argue the role of our subjective interpretation on every human experience, but let’s no go there for now). They hurt you.
Are you gonna become a scholar of the past hurt and trauma or are you gonna take the reigns of your life, address your emotions, do the necessary healing and decide what do you want in life from now on?
They say it may not be your fault what hurt you but is definitely your responsibility to heal from it and rise.
Again, note to self and thank you @longdistancelovebombs
for this blunt and necessary reminder. Always a good time to shake some things up! 👌🏽