#narcissticrecovery

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At 9 yrs old I became a parent to both my baby brother and my mother. My entire life I took care of my mother financially, physically, and emotionally. I was afraid to say No out of fear of rejection and abandonment, my mother told me that children are suppose to take care of their parents. Taking care of my mother became my priority in life, I was in constant fight or flight mode. There were no boundaries, I had no voice, I was constantly reminded that I was the child as an adult and she was the “Mother” In my adult life I had no idea what boundaries were, I was constantly seeking approval and validation in others, I had eating disorders,body dysmorphia, I attracted needy people, I was a magnet for Narcsassitic relationships, I was a people pleaser.... I was never just a girl who got to go outside and ride her bike and play; I was PARENTIFIED. At 37 years old I am now reparenting myself, being patient with myself, showing myself gratitude, making time for myself, forgiving myself, praying. Remember it’s not your fault! You are POWERFUL ! I see you, I stand with you, I love you. #parentification #parentifiedchild #parentifiedyouth #motherwound #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #adultchildrenofnarcissists #narcissisticmother #covertnarcissist #narcissticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissticrecovery #narcfree #narcissticawareness #youarenotcrazy #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #fightorflight #soma #warrior #jesussaves #milagrosandluzheals #codependencyrecovery #youarepowerful #freeindeed
So its day 4 the ex narcissist made contact through text asking me to drop his belongings said no will be left outside in safe place for him to collect as arranged. He is testing the water trying to get face to face contact to see if he can Hoover me back in again. He didn't get what he wanted. Work and a yoga class have kept me mentally strong today #mentalhealthawareness #narcissim #hoovering #narcissticrecovery #strongwomen #narcissimblog #narcissimdiary
Day 4 and my anger has subsided. After work I spent time in my garden very therapeutic and feeling very relaxed and chilled. Have booked a yoga class for the morning focusing on myself positive steps forward. #narcissticrecovery #domesticabuse #gardeninguk #flowers #gardenflowers #postivity #healing
Truth: we are all a little broken in some way. So, stop hiding it. Embrace it. Brokenness is not mended by adding more brokenness. Brokenness only finds healing when it is fully restored and made new. - Forgive yourself, friends. You were doing what you needed to do at the time to survive. God’s purpose for you is bigger than your mistakes. He forgave you long ago, it’s your turn now! 😘 - Stay tuned for my IGTV story later today, all about the process of forgiving myself. 🙏
I just had the biggest download of my (current 😉) life to date and feeling just amazingly grateful for the journey I am on and what I have learnt over these past 12 months. ✨ Roughly a year ago I started some narcissistic recovery and soul healing work with @jenpeters_soulguide.healer (check her out guys she’s incredible), went sober and started my research into vegannism. Things were slowly but surely taking shape. My ascension was pretty quick and my suppressed gifts were all too quick to come flowing back which was overwhelming to say the least 😳 ✨ Fast forward a year and I’ve done all the things I never thought I w(c)ould do including quitting my oppressed, conforming corporate job, completely giving up alcohol, going vegan, getting back into fitness, having surgery, ending toxic relationships, started writing again, retraining into something I’m hugely passionate about, setting boundaries.. saying no.. the list is endless. ✨ Remember that every good thing that happens to us is born out of fear, getting outside of that comfort zone and breaking those triggered loops we find ourself in when we are still living in fear. ✨ Sending so much love and blessings to you all, and can’t wait to share insight into this download in the near future, B x 🔮✨😊🙏🏼💚🌞 . . . #balanceyourbeinguk #gratitude #personalgrowth #reflection #spiritualdownload #clairvoyance #spiritualinsight #cordcutting #energyhealing #soulhealing #starseed #spiritualawakening #highvibrations #positivevibes #setintentions #narcissticrecovery #innerchildwork #forgiveness #soultribe #reiki #crystalhealing #thepowerofcrystals #lawofattraction #manifestyourdreams #selflove
Our new colleague is totally underqualified and by the way, my new outfit looks good on me, doesn’t it?” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A phrase only a narcissist would say. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Narcissists are people who are incredibly convinced of themselves. They feel superior and important and draw their energy from the attention of others. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ However, narcissism is actually a disease. People with narcissistic personality disorder suffer from a lack of empathy and hide their true low self-confidence with their exaggerated behavior. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ In this article, we want to give you a list of 31 characteristics of a narcissist that help you to spot one. We also explain what a narcissist is and how you can help other people to reduce their narcissistic behavior. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #mastermindfulness #mindfulness #narcissticabuseawareness #narcisstic #narcissticrecovery #narcissticsurvivor #narcissticlove #narcissticpersonalitydisorder #narcisst #narcissticabuse #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #narcissim #narcissist
And notice PATTERNS! If they continually hurt you, be mature enough to walk away in order to take care of yourself! #mentalhealth #takecareofyourself #bpdrecovery #narcissticrecovery #abuse
Ahhhh, narcissists aren’t nearly as clever as they think they are. 😂 the moment he begins staring at his cellphone more than he stares at your face is the moment your triangulation has truly begun. It’s also when you need to exit stage left. I’m a writer and I LOVE words, but when dealing with a narcissist words mean nothing. Watch his actions. And sweetie, if all you’re seeing is the top of his head because he’s texting that’s the action you need to be watching... I’m currently in the editing process for my book ‘EVOLUTION ‘ and you can rest assured... the narcissist doesn’t win... 😊 #narcissism #writers #iamediting #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissists #narcissisticrelationships #narcissticsupply #narcissticrecovery #narcissistic #writersofinstagram #writer
My husband and I have Raised 4 happy & healthy kids that thrive in their education with no mental health problems & then my stepkids #ouralyanna #oureliseo . Have #depression & anxiety I wonder why🙊💁Reposted from @pickingup.the.pieces - It happens to both parents.. Mom or Dad, and more importantly, it happens to children. Parental Alienation is abuse and no one should be made to live that way. 💔 . . . . . #fighttoreunite #survivor #childrensrights #children #son #daughter #childsupport #alienatedchild #nocontact #familycourt #coparenting #blendedfamily #anxiety #stepmom #stepdad stepparents #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #childabuseawareness #fathersrights #fathersrightsmovement mothersrights #father #mother #depression #stockholmsyndrome #narcissist #narcissticabuse #narcissticrecovery #stopparentalalienation
Lol omg so true hahaha his daughter is his twin & the older his son gets the more he looks like his dad 😂😂😂😂Reposted from @pickingup.the.pieces - Because we all need some humor! But... truth. It happens to both parents.. Mom or Dad. Parental Alienation is abuse. 💔 . . . . . #fighttoreunite #survivor #childrensrights #children #son #daughter #fight #standupforwhatsright #nocontact #realtalk #coparenting #blendedfamily #familyisforever #stepmom #stepdad #stepparents #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #childabuseawareness #fathersrights #fathersrightsmovement #ouralyanna #oureliseo #father #mother #lies #narcissist #narcissticabuse #narcissticrecovery #stopparentalalienation
I could not have said it any better than this. This is EXACTLY how it is and it is very very sad. It causes both the alienated parent to attempt suicide and sometimes be successful with it and also self harm by the children. Parental Alienation is not something that is a joke. It is mourning the loss of your children even though they are still alive. It is mourning the loss of your BLOOD, A PART OF YOU!!! It is the most evil and vindictive thing a person can do because it does long term emotional and mental damage to the children that lasts a lifetime. #ouralyanna #oureliseo Reposted from @pickingup.the.pieces - Truth. It happens to both parents.. Mom or Dad. Parental Alienation is abuse. 💔 . . . . . #fighttoreunite #survivor #childrensrights #children #son #daughter #fight #standupforwhatsright #nocontact #realtalk #coparenting #blendedfamily #familyisforever #stepmom #stepdad #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #childabuseawareness #fathersrights #fathersrightsmovement #father #mother #erased #stockholmsyndrome #narcissist #narcissticabuse #narcissticrecovery #stopparentalalienation
The struggle of dealing with the good times that you had with a Narcissist is real. - I remember how the small number of good times overweighed the worst experiences every time, I thought of leaving my Narcissistic friend. - How my mind argued, "It isn't that bad" every time I tried to stand against the brutal abuse that I was going through. - Finally, It was my mentor who helped me to see the reality behind what seemed to be the "good times". - It was he who helped me see the trap and a "hidden hook" behind everything I perceived to be good. - Now, I am sharing this experience with you not to tell you that it is so simple to get out of the Narcissist's grip..... - But..... - To give you a ray of hope that real healing and breaking free from the chains is possible. - It is possible to be able to see, understand and believe the reality behind "the perceived good times" but... It needs help - I have been helping a lot of people to get over missing the good times so effectively that they have finally escaped the mental trap. - And... - Today, I am offering this help to a very limited number of people who are in genuine need of it. - If you have been struggling with moving on and letting go and need this help, Comment "Yes" in comments below - I will personally message you with further details - P.S. I will reply only to first five "Yes" comments due to limited availability of slots.
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