things to remember while entering anew year: don't give up on people, but don't keep going in circles with them either.
you can try to make everyone happy, but it won't always work. that doesn't mean it's your fault.
learn from your mistakes by not repeating them. don't think"maybe this time i'll get it right", odds are you won't.
never let someone's perception of you dictate your behavior.
never let someone make you feel bad for who you are or the decisions you've made. you know what happened and you know your mistakes, they don't need to be a reminder.