Happy 4th Anniversary to the man I thought once was so opposite of me I wasn’t sure it’d work out, but actually learned more than ever ... we complement each other and are very reciprocal in our approach towards life.
In such a way we bring things to our relationship the other one frankly does not have.
Me: ENFP, Enneagram 7, Physical touch and QT are my love languages.
Nosa: INFJ, Enneagram 5, Acts of Service and QT are his love languages.
Thank you for grounding me. I used to always be adding more to my plate and doing more things. Id quickly look things over because i never slowed down to actually feel. Thanks for teaching me to really love and respect myself and my own time. For always encouraging me to deepen my understanding, my personal growth, and for always supporting me to take myself, my goals and interests more seriously (not putting my goals to the back burner and doing things for others always).
I love being the spontaneous one and you learning to love (maybe more have to🤷🏻♀️) go along with it. Exploring and having no set calendar or plan sometimes is hard for you, but you know how much it makes me happy. Thanks for listening to my 35 min story that you could have told in 2.5 mins because I needed to tell you all the other little details that kind of sort of related too.
So grateful for you. For your love. The way you challenge me to be better (I freaking hate that sometimes too). And, you’re one hell of a Dad.